Does anybody know...
where Candace has gone? What happenend to her blog? I really miss her posts.... When someone disappears like that it leaves a feeling of ...sadness.... but we are at least in a very "unpersonal" space around here.
I liked to read Saratoga´s Post concerning the vanishing of that blog. Think he could be right... It would be nice and polite when she could send to some of "us" a goodbye with an explanation... Not?
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I understand your sense of loss and disappointment that Candace withdrew without saying goodbye, however we all must do what is best for us and, if applicable, to our families.
Think back to what she gave you during the time you read her blog. She was kind and loving in her approach to dealing with her husband and polite to those who commented. You really enjoyed the experience of glimpsing her new life as a dominant woman, right? Perhaps instead of critcizing her or suspecting her of some nefarious goal, we should applaud her for what she gave us and thank her for her time (writing the type of entries she made was very time consuming I'm sure).
Thank you for your fine comment, Lady Julia. Indeed- whatever the goals of Candace were - it is her concern. And beeing so good at something can´t be just a fake at all. What she did and gave to us - yes, I enjoyed it a lot. Learnt a lot. It was a gift. So that´s real.
The sense of loss has actually to do with that going "without a word". Because we don´t know anything about the reasons we cannot say anything about it..
(I was actually thinking about asking Lady Julia what happened with C.- but it is obviously not the case that you know it- so it is wonderful to have kind of an answer before having asked. Thank you again L.J.)
I do wish Candace had chosen to leave what she'd already written up even if she'd never added another word. Her clarity and humanity were a wonderful example for women who might be considering dominance but felt nervous or uncertain.
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