Her Rules

I know I'm lucky because I have a wife who at least has a sense of humor to deal with certain topics of my interest . She never would like to do it seriously, it's not her style. Though I know that she knows how far my natural male submissiveness is developed, she wouldn't want to really talk about it. Nor she ever did talk much about sex. It's not (only) her catholic education, it's just fun for her to not talk about it. It' s something adults do -from time to time- and it is considered a little bit crazy, but talk much about it? No. That's none of her business.

Being submissive to my wife also means to play at her terms.
She doesn't like to read much either- especially not in English- so chances are little for me to upfront things in a way I would prefer. She knows about me in her ways and she also long started to use the benefits of a female led relationship by extending her power over me, it comes along with a touch of ironic humor when it comes to what one would call the kinky side.

Surely it works for her without her having to act in a LFA- style (whatever you would understand with that), but who (but me) cares?
So that's why I feel the time is not far when I could drop things more or less seriously but mixed with that touch of humor which she likes, more tiptoe- like.
So like when she asks what I am doing I'd say I'm just reading some blogs about FLR- she might be interested. (I wouldn't show her the home- site of Elise Sutton, she wouldn't like the images, better the aroundherfinger.com).
It seems it has to be her way. Our way. It has to deal with the rules she is accepting or it has to be nothing but shit, that happens.

Take your time, but don't forget the target (how could I ever) and know: it's all up to her. There are no rules but her rules.

That takes me to the wonderful last postings from Veezknight and GoddessV's on their blog, which I highly recommend tonight to this concern. I would like to translate it into German -for my wife- for a German blog, when they give me permission.

I read their blog for a while and took some time to step back to the beginning of that blog..please, if you are interested in the topic: read it all. It's good and well written.