Dogs, Chastity Devices and Fluids

There is a saying that men are similar to dogs, women to cats. That makes sense in a way. When I consider my behavior concerning sex it seems not too far...
Especially when it comes to the submissive part of the game.
When I get down on HER there is not a big difference to what dogs do and like.
Then I am would be the dog and SHE is would be the cat..

We had a female dog in our garden years ago and another male dog in the garden of our neighbor. What she did was: she educated him in that way: she stood with her behind at the fence (whenever she wanted) and let him lick through the fence her best parts. They both loved it a lot and it took always a long time (i.e. half an hour and more).

The fence was so to say a good chastity device. Our female dog hated penetration.... Before she never would let lick some other dog her behind, but now, when she could be "safe" and totally decide when and how long... she used the opportunity very often. It was really fun to see for us.

Yes and somewhere I read that there are hormones in the vagina fluids, when it is pleased which increase submission of the male, who is licking from it... I forgot where I read this.
Does anybody know where I can find something about the subject?
Well I can say, there is something in it which increases addiction on my part.

Terms of Fled...

About new terms for a FLR. FLM. FL...
What about "Flarriage"- as a female led marriage...?
Or:
What about "Fledlock"?
Would be for female -led- wedlock. Locked by a female, by her leading. Great.

"How was your fledlock -ceremony?"

"Oh fine, I feel great being fledlocked".
Not bad! What do you think?

Love to you all fledlocked -no, not ledflocked,....- couples from
faninho -locked, say fledlocked

Superior

Are they superior?
The answer could be
a. I think they are , but they aren't.
b. They are
c. They are equal i.e. men aren't either superior of course.

Who knows? Only the females?
In my situation: I think it's - say- here yes, there no.
When you wan't to know who is better in managing- a man, a family, an institution with people, politics... then the answer is: yes women seem to be better in it...superior.
Sexually etc., of course.

So what the heck are men good for? If not helping a woman, serving a woman. Give her protect, advice, power. Could there be something more beautiful for us?
So what should education, school should teach young boys?
Besides to be strong, to be better than others, okay, good sport?
In the first line: respect and protect and support women. Submit, surrender.
What about obeying?

Because it could be that women just right now are to climb up the next step of evolution. That's from men (mankind) to women (kind)? Isn't it already to be seen anywhere?
I don't want to be the last one to notice.
I want to be with them. Like to join. Be part of the future.
It's not about loosing something - erotically, sexually etc.
It's about being a man in a new dimension.
Gain more life- power in my relationship of a kind I didn't expect ever before.

Submit to ....

My first wife in this sense (we were not actually married) didn't notice anything of my submissive side. I was more of a macho. I had submissive fantasies from time to time, but they were not directed to her.
The relationship was a bit boring after a while for some reasons.

I believe submissiveness is more or less inside the nature of any man. It comes out and it increases by biography, by age and by certain circumstances like meeting a woman of a particular kind.

Some women seem to touch the submissive side inside her man more than others.
Once a woman has found out how that works for her she starts to like it and to use this power -without any "FLR"- elements.
That's normal and it is the matter of fact when we can say "this is a good marriage", especially when couples are aging. The more when it comes to a more or less FLR- marriage.

My second wife now has just this attribute which fits: she stirs my nature that way and so I am submissive to her and it is becoming exactly the way she likes it.
I felt her power right at the beginning when we dated.
It's been very attracting to me- and to her too. But I didn't know where that came from. It took me some time until I could direct my feelings of that quality to my wife. I ow this to researches in the net. So Elise Sutton wrote in her "How To Introduce Your Wife..." things like "..if you are a submissive male who is married or in a serious relationship with a woman, you need to search no further for your Dominatrix. She is right in front of you."
This touched me tremendously.
But nevertheless it has to be the woman you love and you are attracted to.

Our friends now envy HER for having such a husband and call us a very good couple.
My first wife comments that sometimes with a bitter taste.
But this dynamic would not have worked with her, nor would it today, because she is still the same and I could not feel submissive to her.

In my opinion it takes two. That's the best.

In The Bathtub

I read a beautiful story recently from Subservire's blog where she peed on him.
It reminded me of a scene which I experienced with my wife, when we were sitting in the bath together years ago.
It was quite for a while and we talked a lot and were playing a bit with our bodies, so from time to time I had a hard on. Suddenly she got up saying she had to pee now.
I said she wouldn’t have to leave the bath for doing that, she could do it just right there.
She laughed- already standing highly above me- „just like that, right from here like a male...?“ she asked and added „ I do it now ..on you!“

She expected me to struggle against her or flee.
But I said... „sure you can".
As I knew her very well I expected that she would call me crazy and leave the situation. But she did not- not yet- she pushed her hips forward, having her feet on each side of my body, looked down on me with a smile then looked to her crotch and let some urine out just strong and far enough to reach with the beam for a couple of seconds my chest and my hard-on.

As I obviously seemed to like it very much she stopped peeing and went out of the bathtub.
While she was sitting on the toilet she cooled down and said that I would be a little kinky like that –she wouldn’t like to go more into that. Better prefer to use the toilet.

She didn’t have the fun she intended – with me jumping disgusted out of the bath -say pissed off - and grumbling at her for her being so barefaced.
That’s what she’d like I think.
Instead I acted a little weired in her eyes while enjoying her peeing on me.
We both didn’t not realize the potentials of inherent intimacy in this ongoing neither my surrender to her female power over me.

But there is something in it that she would like, as I know now.
Being comfortable. Confront me with her body and her excretions- She likes to be on the toilet when I am in the room.
But she don't like me to more than accept this.
And eagerly adoring her.
She's special and I learned to respect her, and I'm special too.
But the story makes me think about again going a more into this. -without pushing. How will that go?

As we still go bathing together it is a good idea to bring it up again.
Perhaps I can start with just letting her pee while she is lying.
She might like it like that, but she didn’t do it with me inside (the bathtub)- or did she already, without me knowing it? Anyway she won't with her sense for parity, because she never would like to have it the other way round .
But it could be possible without me knowing. Yes.. That is fun!